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I am going to be a mother who reads with her children because I think that reading with my child will develop emotional connections. Ann Moulton Johnson captures the idea beautifully in her article I Had a Mother Who Read to Me when she says, “Reading together is one of the few activities a family can participate in that involves no expense. Instead of working and worrying to provide your children with material possessions that are soon broken and forgotten, try giving them time and love. Memories are made of these magic ingredients.” (Johnson 76). The beauty of reading as a family is that it takes time and energy and I want my children to know that I love them so much I am willing to give up both to be with them. There could not be a better way to sacrefice time and energy than to read with my children.
When I read with my children I will be able to convey the meaning of values and morals to my children. A study how parents read with their children notes, “the belief that parents teach more than the mechanisms and strategies of reading during storybook activity with their children; rather, they convey their worldviews and values based on previous experiences.” (Neuman, 498). I think that my values and views will be conveyed by the books that I chose to read with my children, and my voice when I read.
The books I chose to read with my children will affect the books that they chose to read on their own. Not only will I want to read books that are age aproprate, but I want to be informed on the messages in the books. I remember that my mom would read The Magic Tree House or The Great Brain, and she did not like Goosebumps. To this day I have never read a Goosebumps book and I believe that it was because my mom did not read them to us. Understand, I am not saying that Goosebumps are a horrible series. I do not even think myself qualified to make that judgement because I have never read them, but what I am saying is that I was influenced by the books that my mother chose to read to me. The books that I chose and chose not to read to my children will have a simular influence.
I like to imagine that how I read a story to my child has the same affect that good music has in a movie. When I watch a movie I know when the character is not supposed to open the door not because I know what is behind the door, but because the music is so intense in the movie that there has to be something coming. Just like music brings the movie to life how I read will bring the characters to life. For example my niece makes sure that every time I read What does This Animal Say? that I oink like a real ping. How I read to my children can do more than just maintain interest, but I think that how I read such sentences like, “he has a sad face,” or “he ate and ate and then he had a tummy ache.” Will teach my children how I feel in these situations. Children can match a parent’s happy voice and face by the time they are six months old (Flavell). I want to read to my children with voices, energy and rythem because I how I read will influence how they feel and think about what I am reading.
There are many oportunites for children to learn to read in classrooms, in preschool, with teachers, but I think that parents are encouraged to read with their child for more than just cognitive development. The books that I chose to read with my children and how I read to my children will greatly influence the morals and views that they develop. Money can send children to the best school, private tutors can drill children in the most rigorious manner, but nothing can teach a child how much their parents love them as spending time with them.
It is one of the most stereotypical sociology studies: give a child one M&M and tell them when you come back if they have not eaten the M&M they will get three more. I remember when I was in Jr. High and I came home from my sociology class and told my mom about the test. She smiled and said, “You waited until I got back to eat the marshmallow when I tried that test with you.” In Jr. High I felt puzzled by how pleased she seemed that I passed such a strange test, but now that I have begun to feel the pressure of college exams I can understand how vital it is that children understand how to delay gratification. I want my children to understand the importance of delaying gratification and I want to develop this understanding by talking to my children about their potential and by being an example of setting and obtaining goals myself.
It is possible that, “The nature of this future-oriented self-control, which develops over time and then coexists with more impetuous behaviors, has intrigued students of development, who have made it central in theories of socialization and in the very definition of the “self” (Elster, 148) If someone cannot comprehend that they are an individual today, in the present, how could that individual ever comprehend the idea of who they will be in the future. I want my children to know that they are an individual. I think that part of helping my child to discover who they are is to talk about them with them to help encourage private speech (Berk). I agree with Vygotsky and think that asking questions like; “How come you liked soccer practice so much today?”, “What did you learn in school today?”, and “Why did you enjoy Grandma’s house?” I think that part of developing children sense of self is to ask open ended questions that help them to verbalize their internal emotions and concepts.

I believe that one of the most important things to teach children is that they can do great things. To me the key in delaying gratification is that yo
be One of the ways to do with Obese children the study concluded that the children could not delay their gratification for food related items possibly because of the strong value of food in their lives. (Bonanto, Boland)
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Antes de clase y capítulo once creía que hubiera quiera mantener las drogas ilegal. Creía Si hubiera querido legalizar las drogas habría consumido las drogas. Hoy creo las drogas son muy malo. No quiero consumir. Pero díceres ahora pienso legalizar las drogas es un idea bueno. Los personas quieren legalizar las drogas tienen razón. Yo tengo cinco razones para legalizar las drogas.
1. Si hubiéramos legalizado las drogas las tiendas de las drogas se habrían hecho rico. Los narcotraficantes trafican en drogas y ellos tienen millones en dólares anuales. Todo está dinero
2. Si hubiéramos legalizado las drogas más dinero habríamos usado para rehabilitación para los drogadictos. A hora el gobierno usa mucho dinero combatir de las drogas para encarcelar y prohibir. El gobierno usaría esto dinero para la rehabilitación para los drogadictos.
3. Si hubiéramos legalizado las drogas habríamos menos sobredosis en general. Hoy mucho los drogadictos tienen una sobredosis por que ellos quieren drogarse antes de la policía entren o antes de los otros delincuentes roban sus drogas.
4. Si hubiéramos legalizado las drogas habríamos controlado la situación de la distribución de las drogas. Ahora el policía usa más tiempo para buscar donde están las drogas y los adictos. Si hubiera comprado las drogas en una tienda habría sabido cual tiendas de las drogas distribuir las drogas.
5. Si hubiéramos legalizado las drogas el precio de las drogas habría reducido dramáticamente. Hoy muchas personas con adicción robaban o prostituirse para dinero para las drogas. Si las tiendas hubieran tenido las drogas por un precio reducido habríamos tenido menos los robos.
Pienso es mejor a legalizar las drogas por esas razones. No quiero consumir las drogas o vender las drogas. Siempre quiero legalizar las drogas.